Be overweight ... ignore how you look!
Do nothing: I know, how a person appears is a very personal matter and we should not be judged by our appearance. I agree with you and I wish it was this way, but it is not!
So the facts are, whether you like them or not, your partner will be changed by how he or she sees your physique.
If you let yourself go, regardless of yourself explanation, your marriage or committed relationship will take a nosedive.
Being unattractive to your partner will lead to less or no sex which will lead to less or no personal relationship. You will find yourself alone and lonely even though you may be a wonderful person with a great personality.
I agree with you, it sucks! It shouldn't be this way... But it is and we all need to deal with it in the world of reality.
How do you look, and research has demonstrated this in all aspects of our lives, will strongly influence how other people relate to you. This is especially true regarding your husband or wife.
Let yourself go, and you will find yourself lost!
Motivation to lose weight
There are many diets available to help you lose weight. Most of these diets are good! However, there is one missing ingredient... and this is the willpower needed to stick with the particular diet of your choice.
Unable to stick to your diet the results are obvious! You will grow and grow wider and wider.
On the other hand, when you acquire the tools needed to stick to your diet you will become slim and trim and stay that way.
Many relationships have an unspoken problem. It is such a sensitive topic rarely is it raised! Being overweight kills sexual desire — for both the husband and the wife.
A sexless marriage is a marriage of disaster. Romance, love and sex are closely intertwined. Remove one of the three, and likely your marriage will be on the rocks.
On the other hand, being physically healthy and attractive is a great aphrodisiac to ensure that both you and your partner are attracted to each other and you find together many pleasurable moments.
Take me to the marriage builders tools to help me maintain the motivation I need to stick to the diet or eating plan of my choice.