Click for a FREE subscription to {Moment of Wisdom} News
anger management, anger control, anger help

Do you have an anger problem?

Take the anger test. Click or tap to take the anger management test

Free anger management tips: Use Your Mind to Control Anger

Posted by Abe Kass on Sun, Nov 29, 2015 @ 23:11 PM

Use your mind to eliminate extreme anger and live peacefully

We all get angry sometimes, and there are times when we simply lose it and end up reacting in such a manner that makes us feel stupid and also leaves a negative impression on others. There is nothing more embarrassing that exploding with extreme anger and revealing to everyone present that we are out of control!

Anger comes from the brain, enters our heart, and exists our mouth! It starts with a thought and ends with hostile words directed at another person!

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management tips: YES To Good Sex— NO To Anger

Posted by Abe Kass on Fri, Mar 27, 2015 @ 13:03 PM

Get the truth as to why your sex life has tanked and what you can do about it.

Free anger management tips to increase the romance in your life

Many couples in a relationship believe that good sex will just happen. It doesn't. 

The longer you and your partner have been together, the more "good sex" will ONLY happen when the two of you have a satisfying emotional relationship—when you feel close with each other. 

When you first met, sex was more about tantalization, touching, and novelty. Now it is more about feeling safe, respected and loved. 

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management tips: Extreme anger and women!

Posted by Abe Kass on Tue, Jan 20, 2015 @ 08:01 AM

Women, like men, can manifest extreme anger that injures health, relationships, and personal self-esteem. If you are a woman, you are advised to learn how to deal with anger so you can contribute to health and harmony.

Extreme anger and women!

Women tend to express anger with sarcastic and shaming words. Often, the target of a woman’s anger is drawn into protracted and exhausting arguments that can go on for long periods of time. 

Would you like free anger management worksheets to help you with your marriage?

Because a woman’s extreme anger is sometimes expressed with less obvious emotion than that of a man's, it is not always easily recognized as anger. Nonetheless, it is anger and is just as harmful as that of a man’s and she needs to learn how to relieve anger if she is to develop healthy and successful relationships.

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management: Three tips to avoid the anger trap

Posted by Abe Kass on Mon, Jan 12, 2015 @ 08:01 AM

Extreme anger is not just shouting and breaking things. Extreme anger includes holding a grudge and chronic resentment toward your partner. The primary cause of many types of extreme anger is "the anger trap." Keep reading to learn more:

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management tips: Know your enemy – the Anger Dragon!

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Dec 11, 2014 @ 08:12 AM

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to be lucky in their relationships? Sexual attractiveness, money, and status certainly help! But they are only secondary factors.

Research has shown that we are attracted to happy people. The opposite of happy people are negative people, and the unhappiest of negative people are typically the people who emote high levels of anger. These are people that have never learned how to deal with anger.

When you are angry, you are emotionally ugly! (Take the anger quiz below to see where you stand)

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management tips: Are you passive-aggressive? Find out!

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Dec 4, 2014 @ 12:12 PM

Anger comes in many shapes, sizes, and colors. One of the most insidious forms is referred to as "passive-aggressive" anger.

Passive-aggressive anger is unique in that it is a camouflaged anger. Typically, the person expressing passive-aggressive anger and the person it is directed toward cannot easily identify it as an act of hostility.

Take the "passive-aggressive" anger management test below

Because of the hidden nature this of this type of anger, it is very difficult to eliminate or hold the person responsible for it accountable. Frequently, the person responsible for passive-aggressive anger is not even aware of the hostile feelings behind the unflattering comments directed toward another.

Passive-aggressive anger is often expressed with sarcasm, jokes about somebody, body language indicating displeasure, refusing to talk, talking to oneself in the presence of the person one is anger with, emotional cutoffs, grunts and other unclear expressions.

There are two types of angry people that rely heavily on passive-aggressive anger to do their dirty work. There is the person that lacks the ability to be assertive and therefore cannot be upfront and open about their feelings with another. There is another type of person that is very crafty and recognizes the distinct advantages of passive-aggressive anger and then uses it to try to achieve his or her purpose.

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management tips: THOUGHTS THAT STOP ANGER!

Posted by Abe Kass on Fri, Nov 28, 2014 @ 14:11 PM

YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOU THINK! YOU ARE NOT YOUR THOUGHTS! That being the case... you CAN control how you think and you CAN use your mind to control your anger.

Yes, it is an amazing thing the mind! BUT IT IS NOT YOU. You are not your kidneys, your stomach, or any other particular organ or gland. YOU ARE NOT WHAT YOU THINK!

Your brain in its physical form or your mind in its more functional form is in your body... one organ amongst many.

Thus the mind, as are all your organs, can to some degree be influenced using various efforts and substances  — medicinal, exercise, self-discipline, food, or environment conditions, etc.

With regards to your mind, the more you direct what it thinks about, the more this organ can then effectively serve you. For example, your mind is the instrument that affords you the opportunity to use anger management techniques. [If you would like more detail on anger management you can download my free anger management tips consumer guide and take our anger management test.]

To achieve mind discipline, for some pure will power is sufficient; others need to learn how to exert control via self-education, meditation, or some other type of mental discipline.

To this end, I have written two unique anger management books. One is an audio anger management book with the essential anger management techniques needed to stay calm and the other is an anger management workbook complete with anger management worksheets to help you develop influence over your mind.

Learn more: Anger management audio book with the necessary anger management techniques to stay calm / Anger management workbook with anger management worksheets to develop mental strength.

Both of these anger management books are designed for ease of use and require only a few minutes of your time each day.They work well with our anger management tips online and have some of the best anger management techniques we have seen online.

Realistically, full control over what your mind thinks about is impossible, but some control in critical areas of your life is helpful and at times essential. Establishing that control over how you think in these areas is worth the effort since the benefits are substantial.

Not sure if you have an anger problem? Take an anger management test.

Using your thoughts to eliminate or reduce anger is one area that should be mastered by everyone.

Angry feelings start with a thought. These anger-provoking thoughts may be so quick you may not even notice them. However, without a first thought, there can be no awareness and thus no reaction.

For example, a sleeping person will never get angry. This is because at the time of sleep, there is no awareness  — no thoughts. Upon awakening, and the emergence of thoughts, many events can lead to angry feelings that can then lead to angry behavior.

Examples of anger-provoking thoughts and their transformation to calming-thoughts:

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management tips: Stay Calm... Perform Better At Work

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Nov 20, 2014 @ 08:11 AM

Behaving calmly is the opposite of being angry and stressed. Being calm and being angry are mutually exclusive feelings. You cannot be both at the same time. Knowing how to deal with anger is one of the best anger management techniques to advance your career.

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips

Free anger management tips: Stay Calm And You Will Be Healthier

Posted by Abe Kass on Wed, Nov 19, 2014 @ 08:11 AM

When you avoid anger and stay calm, you will be physically healthier and perhaps even live longer. Being calm is one of the greatest of health tonics know to humankind. It is a well-established medical fact that being at peace is healthy for body and soul.

In my birth-family, one member was always blowing-his-lid. He would yell, threaten, throw things, and even push others. In his fifties, he developed heart disease and went on to have several strokes. There is nothing new in this story — only a reminder to not let this happen to you or someone you love.

Not sure if you are angry. Take the anger management quiz.

John was always getting sick. His doctor told him to learn how to relax and how to overcoming anger. John changed his attitude about life, avoided getting angry, and started a new hobby. Two years later, he was at the peak of health.

Sarah was a busy professional. She often got headaches. She started working out at the gym and found it relaxing. She also tried overcoming anger and frustration. Her stress headaches decreased significantly once she learned how to relieve anger in her life.

How to relieve anger

According to Dr. Laura Kubzansky, PhD, MPH, associate professor at the Harvard School of Public Health, those people that behave with explosive anger which includes screaming at others and throwing things or carrying within rage, may be at a greater risk for heart disease.

Jerry Kiffer, MA, a heart-brain researcher at the Cleveland Clinic's Psychological Testing Center, suggest when angry blood vessels constrict, blood pressure goes up, and other physiological responses impact on the body that can lead to damage to artery walls.

Journal of the American College of Cardiology, analyzing 44 studies that link emotional with heart disease. They suggest that chronically angry adults may have a 19% higher chance to develop heart disease whereas those already living with heart disease have a 24% more likelihood of receiving a poor prognosis. (

Two of the most unsettling emotions are depression and anger. Typically it is not noticed, however depression and anger often go hand-in-hand. People don't like to feel helpless and hopeless — these being the feelings that fuel circumstantial depression. If you suffer from depression, seeking solutions to overcoming anger to this problem along with a good course or book on anger management are both essential. Overcoming anger and how to relieve anger needs to be at the top of your priority list.

Would you like free anger management tips?

Stress is a major contributor to poor health. No one argues with this fact. Anger for many individuals is the greatest source of their day to day stress. This is why the antidote to anger is to be calm.

Understand, becoming angry solves nothing! When you express anger, what catches everyone's attention is only your anger, not the "reasons" you are angry. So even if your opinion or point of view is valid, it is lost in the anger drama.

The takeaway: Unless you are calm don't communicate because no one is listening. When you couple this with the fact you are injuring your health and achieving nothing in return… it should be obvious getting angry is completely foolish. The reality, angry people often become burdened with circumstantial depression because they don't communicate effectively and achieve very little of value in their lives!

Learn how to control your anger using our free anger management tips, stay calm, and communicate effectively. Doing so will help ward off heart disease and other serious stress related illnesses.

[If you would like more detail on anger management you can download my free anger management tips consumer guide.]

Read More

Topics: Anger management tips, How to relieve anger

Free anger management tips: THE BENEFITS OF LIVING ANGER-FREE

Posted by Abe Kass on Sun, Nov 16, 2014 @ 08:11 AM

Staying calm and overcoming anger contributes to physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. These benefits will enrich your daily life. Like money in the bank, the value of your benefits will increase as positive momentum builds, and your success grows. The following are some of the most prominent benefits of living free from anger and examples of how overcoming anger can help you achieve these benefits.

Over the next few weeks, we will cover eight benefits in our "free anger management tips" series. Read and stay-tuned for the following editions on how to deal with anger and the benefits of doing so. As well as some anger management exercises.

Anger and relationships

When I was growing-up there were great amounts of anger in my home. Family relationships were fractured and polarized. I never realized how much everyone suffered until years later. My siblings are all that is left of my family of origin, and we have virtually no connection with each other. It has taken me years to understand the reason, but it is really very simple. When children grow up in anger generated fear, survival dictates that they emotionally distance themselves from the source. In my case, from my family and its members. Each one of us did the same. The lasting result, fifty years later we are still  "distant" from one another. Don't let this happen to your family! [If you would like more detail on anger management exercises you can download my free anger management tips consumer guide.]

Read More

Topics: Overcoming anger, Anger management tips

Recent Posts

Upgrade the quality of your life and relationships with these "recommended" best self-help books for women and men.

Anger Management   Defeat Depression   Stop Emotional Abuse   Marriage Help   Build Self-esteem   Become Assertive   Learn how to relax   Learn Optimism   Learn how to be Happy   Be a good parent   Stop Worry   Increase Motivation to Lose Weight   Surviving Infidelity

Available for immediate use from:

Copyright © 2018 by Abe Kass. All rights reserved. | Privacy | Disclaimer