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Learn the TRUTH about your marriage or committed relationship... and if there is emotional abuse, what to do and where to get help.

If you don't want to take the Emotional Abuse Test, you can still learn more about emotional abuse and other types of abuse — psychological abuse, verbal abuse, physical abuse, domestic violence — by reading to the bottom of this page.

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After you have taken the emotional abuse test, get more information about your score and get the 12 things you MUST know and do if you are being emotionally abused. Click to get more information about your score for the Emotional Abuse Test

If you didn't take the Emotional Abuse Test (for whatever reason), learn more about emotional abuse and other types of abuse — psychological abuse, verbal abuse, physical abuse, domestic violence — by continuing to read to the bottom of this page.

 



What is emotional abuse and what is unique about this emotional abuse test?

Emotional abuse is the use of anger to permanently and systematically control, humiliate, and break the spirit of another person—man, woman, or child.

The intention behind the anger is what changes the "anger" from simply a bad character trait, to "abusive anger" an unacceptable behavior that must be confronted and stopped.

To get at the intention behind the extreme anger, I have provided you with a fifteen questions Emotional Abuse Test you can take in about five minutes. You will get the results immediately. It is completely private and you do not give your name or email address.

This Emotional Abuse Test is based on solid scientific research. It has been designed to help couples determine if their relationship is similar to other couples that live in abusive relationships.

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Since men are typically physically stronger, or in a stronger financial position, they are frequently perpetrators of abuse. They use this "power" to control, humiliate, and break the resistance of their partner. This is why men are often more dangerous and destructive when they foster abusive relationships. 

Typically, a verbally abusive husband uses his words to control, but sadly sometimes physical coercion and assault are also used to control. If you are a verbally abusive husband, you need to change the way you relate to your wife. Your behavior is ruining your peace and harmony, and eventually your wife may very well leave you—and who can blame her! It's your fault for being controlling, mean and selfish.

If you are an emotionally abusive wife, know you are destroying your husband. There is no victory in this since both of you share the same fate. If you hurt him, so too you are hurting yourself and your children. As well, as an emotionally abusive wife, you may push your husband to the edge, and he may seek understanding and kindness elsewhere.

Abusive relationships are not determined solely by bitter and destructive fighting. Abusive relationships are determined by the intent of the anger and aggression. Often only a trained and skilled professional can make that assessment. 

Abusive relationships can be fixed, but you need to know how and then you need consistent determination to make the necessary changes.

As a marriage and family therapist, I have helped many couples in abusive relationships change their attitudes. If you are a verbally abusive husband or an emotionally abusive wife, there is help. If there is physical assault, you need to get immediate outside help to establish safety and to determine then what are your realistic options.

Read more if there is physical abuse and violence

Take the Emotional Abuse Test above. It will give you some indication of psychological and emotional abuse in your current relationship.

Answer the questions based on what is currently happening in your relationship.

As with all self-reporting surveys, there are inherent inaccuracies as well as other limitations.

You can read more about this Emotional Abuse Test by following the reference link below.

For the most accurate interpretation and help with your particular situation speak to a qualified relationship specialist that knows about abuse and violence. As well, for the most accurate results use other abuse tests to confirm or modify the results on this Emotional Abuse Test.

The author of this site, Abe Kass, assumes no responsibility for any inaccuracies or unintended miss information. The user of the Emotional Abuse Test and associated information does so at his or her own risk.


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The 15 Essential Facts Victims of Emotional Abuse Need to Know
by marriage expert Abe Kass MA RSW RMFT CCHT

You are probably on this page about emotional abuse in serious relationships because you are wondering if you have an emotionally abusive husband or an emotionally abusive wife or an emotionally abusive partner.

Something is seriously wrong in your marriage or committed relationship, and you want to know what it is!

I hope you will take my Emotional Abuse Test at the top of this page to find out if you have an emotionally abusive relationship or not.

Should it turn out that you are in an "emotionally abusive relationship," understand that knowing this truth  that you are in fact in an emotionally abusive relationship — is an opportunity to then take the needed steps to improve your marriage or committed relationship.

If you are in an emotionally abusive relationship that cannot be fixed, learn how to develop an intelligent plan to single-handedly build a better life for yourself.

No one should live in an emotionally abusive relationship. You are entitled to a peaceful, happy, and safe life. If you are living with and emotionally abusive husband or with an emotionally abusive wife this is a toxic dynamic that you should never accept!

I have written an essential guide to lead you forward if you are living in a relationship that is characterized by emotional abuse. My booklet, The 15 Essential Facts Victims of Emotional Abuse Need to Know is your map to relationship freedom.

In my book I will show what you need to know about your current situation, what are your realistic options, and what you need to do to exit yourself from a life of emotional abuse. As well, I will discuss briefly other types of abuse such as psychological abuse, verbal abuse, domestic violence, and sexual abuse.

I have written an essential guide to lead you forward if you are living in a relationship that is characterized by emotional abuse. My booklet, The 15 Essential Facts Victims of Emotional Abuse Need to Know is your path to freedom. I will show what you need to know about your current situation, what are your realistic options, and what you need to do to exit yourself from a life of emotional abuse. As well, I will discuss briefly other types of abuse such as psychological abuse, verbal abuse, domestic violence, and sexual abuse.

I can give you this valued guidance on how to free yourself from emotional abuse because I know complicated relationships. I have been helping individuals in stressed marriages and committed relationships just like yours for over 25 years as a professional marriage and family therapist. I have helped good people just like you solve some very difficult relationship problems.

Every relationship situation is different, and your relationship with your husband or wife or committed partner cannot be compared to the relationships of others. However, there is enough that you have in common with others who have an emotionally abusive husband or an emotionally abusive wife that will make the guidance offered to you in this booklet, The 15 Essential Facts Victims of Emotional Abuse Need to Know relevant and life-saving.

If you are not sure of the status of your relationship, remember to take my Emotional Abuse Test above.

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This Emotional Abuse Test is adapted and slightly "modified" by Abe Kass from: THE INTIMATE JUSTICE SCALE: AN INSTRUMENT TO SCREEN FOR PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE AND PHYSICAL VIOLENCE IN CLINICAL PRACTICE By Brian Jory, Ph.D. Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, January 2004, Volume 30, Number 1, 29 – 44. You can read this article here: Wiley Online Library, Journal of Marital and Family Therapy