Hi, this is couple and family therapist Abe Kass.
When an infidelity crisis crashes down upon you and your partner, your lives become shattered. When this happens, most individuals feel polarized and isolated from one another.
The bridge to bring you and your partner together again is built with words. However, not just any words. You need the right words and you need them delivered in the right way!
Words become the glue that holds you and your partner together during this most difficult time in your relationship.
You need to both send words to your partner and have your words received by him or her.
Communicating is not unlike playing ping pong or tennis. The ball is served, received, and then returned with another serve. The harmony between sending the ball, receiving the ball, and in turn to send it back again must be skillfully measured. The same is true with ‘effective communication’ between a husband or boyfriend and a wife or girlfriend. You need to have the ‘right words’ and they need to be ‘delivered and received’ in a very exacting way. And most individuals need to be taught how to do this!
As with ping pong or tennis, receiving the ball is the most challenging. The same is true receiving your partner’s words. For many people, being able to listen and understand what is being said is the most difficult part of the act of communicating! That’s why being an expert listener must be taught!
Skillful communication is especially true when you are struggling with surviving infidelity. When surviving infidelity emotions are running high, it’s easy when talking with each other for a few misplaced words to spark an emotional outburst that will in effect shut down the opportunity to talk, connect, and heal.
Not being able to speak with each other makes recovering from infidelity almost impossible. (When couples hire a professional relationship specialist to help them recover from adultery, ‘speaking calmly’ about the affair is one of the main therapeutic goals.)
My audiobook, Relationship Listening is an essential tool that will help you through your relationship crisis. It will give you the tools you need to speak with each other in a respectful, comfortable, and logical way. This powerful communication program, already used by thousands of individuals, will help you to understand each other better.
Recovering from infidelity requires facing the issues at hand. In order to do that you need to communicate effectively. Unfortunately, many couples try to talk but it breaks down because of anger, hurt feelings, and the like.
Using the communication tools learned in Relationship Listening audiobook, the likelihood of this happening is greatly reduced!
Relationship Listening audiobook is a valuable tool for all couples that wish to recover from infidelity.
Relationship Listening audio program will give you the relationship recovery skills needed to move forward after the crisis of adultery.
Here are a few of the outstanding features in this outstanding relationship self-help book, Relationship Listening — Attract the people you like and bring them close to you:
Convenient. You are active and busy. This is precisely why I have designed a relationship self-help book that only requires 8-minutes-day for about three weeks. Unlike many other self-help books, Relationship Listening — Attract the people you like and bring them close to you can be learned where and when you want — it's like having a portable teacher.
Private. Solve your problems privately without involving others (counseling services, teachers or doctors). Using Relationship Listening — Attract the people you like and bring them close to you self-help book your problem and the solution remains confidential!
Full Mind Learning. Scientists know intellectual, logical, and analytical learning uses the "left/conscious" side of the brain, and emotional, imaginative, and creative learning uses the "right/subconscious" side of the brain. This self-help audio book engages both sides of the mind for optimal learning, making infidelity recovery and relationship building effective and long-lasting. This is a very different approach than many other self-help books on the market today that just preach to your intellectual mind and don't involve your emotions!
Targets A Specific Problem. There is no need for you to listen to a lengthy collection of self-improvement audio programs or read a wordy book or two and then try to extract from it the 5% or 10% that is relevant. This relationship building self-help book targets a specific problem and provides a specific solution. The targeted solutions in this relationship building book makes it one of the best self-help books for men and women looking to connect deeply with each other.
Practical Skills. Theory is nice, but change will not happen without action. Plain and simple — you need to know what to do to get close with your partner. Relationship Listening — Attract the people you like and bring them close to youself-help book gives you the practical skills needed to get calm and stay that way.
This is what you will get in this amazing relationship building audiobook:
Introduction. This track teaches how to use this audiobook.
Intellectual Mind Instruction (8 minutes). This lesson teaches the "intellectual" or conscious mind the basic principles and life-skills needed to get close with your partner and enjoy your relationship.
Emotional Mind Instruction (8 minutes). This lesson uses the "emotional" or subconscious mind to support intimacy building behavior.
Deep Relaxation (about 27 minutes). This is an optional lesson that gently leads you on a personal inner journey using the power of your imagination to achieve a relaxed state of mind.
Relationship Listening — Attract the people you like and bring them close to you is one of best self-help books for men and women looking for healthy a healthy, happy, and long lasting relationship.
Listen to a short clip of this best self-help book to help you build love, intimacy, and passion in your marriage or committed relationship:
CAUTION: This audio book is one of the best self-help books on the market. However, it won't entertain — but it WILL HELP YOU BUILD A POWERFUL CONNECTION WITH YOUR PARTNER. This program uses 'repetition' to LEARN THE SKILLS NEEDED TO CONNECT WITH YOUR PARTNER. DON'T BUY if you are looking for an old-fashioned — psychobabble — approach.
Lasting positive changes are possible using our advanced self-help educational technologies. Learn in the privacy and convenience of your home, office, or car. In many cases this program can be an effective alternative to traditional office therapy — and at a fraction of the cost!
"When my husband listened to your Relationship Listening program, a miracle happened! Our marriage was dramatically transformed for the better." - L.K.
"After my wife listened to your CD on Relationship Listening, our relationship improved immediately. I was amazed." - C.L.
"This program is amazingly effective. In the past, whenever I felt I faced problems in my relationships, I thought of what my partners did wrong. I almost never gave my partners the chance to explain anything, and yet worse, never asked them to talk." - D. Zellman "Zee."
"This program made me realize that the most important part of relationships is communication, and communication is a two way action; talking and listening. After one week from listening to this program, my relationships with people improved 200% and I feel so much better about people and about myself. I used to judge people immediately, whether people who were potential romantic partners or potential friends. Now, I give myself a chance to get to communicate with people and know them on a whole different level. I also have completely new and improved ways of finding solutions to my problems with my partners." - G.W.
This program made my life a lot easier and happier without even interfering in my schedule. All I need to do is put myself in a relaxing setting and listen to the program." - T.C.
"I really enjoyed using this program. I found that the concepts were explained in a practical and easy to understand format. My relationships are now deeper and more meaningful. I would recommend this program to anyone who is looking for improved relationships with their loved ones." - Ben
"After listening to your Relationship Listening program I now understand why my wife never seemed satisfied. I now have the right tools to help us move forward." - M.P.
"I am a skeptical of self-help titles, but this one is different. When you first listen to it, it may seem a little corny, but I found out that over the past few weeks, by listening to one of the 8-minutes segments each morning as instructed, my relationships began steady improvement. Now I don't rush or interrupt people like I used to. Amazingly enough, I discovered that my friends, co-workers and family are really interesting, if I actually listen. Who knew? Plus the less I say, the better a communicator they think I am, and when I do speak up, they listen closely to me. Thank you, Dr. Kass!" - Rob
"I have been listening to your Relationship Listening CD over and over again. Now, for the first time, I understand why my wife has been so unhappy with our relationship. If I had only known years ago about healthy communication, I could have eliminated much suffering for both of us." - T.P.
"Simplicity must be the ticket. There are basic concepts presented in this program that are easily grasped and get right to the core of it. They are not the concepts I had earlier heard which did little to assist.” -Benjamin
"I found this audio very useful and easy to listen to. I acquired from the internet information about the research behind it, and found it helpful for me to fully understand the methods behind the program. I now find myself changing some of myself defeating habits and thinking patterns without effort. One of the many helpful ideas from the audio is that positive thoughts and thinking is not necessary automatic but a little effort can initiate subtle and powerful change. I would recommend this type of program to anyone." -B.D.
* Please note: 8-minutes-a-day for 3-weeks is required for typical problems. Some individuals need to use this best self-help book for a longer period of time or require occasional reviews. Also, some individuals may require specific treatments not provided by this book. Since every person's situation is unique, results cannot be guaranteed.