Romance in your committed relationship gives it life!
Make sure your marriage or committed relationship has a healthy dose of fun, love, and sex. These are the ingredients to romantic feelings.
List on a piece of paper ten or more activities that you and your partner have done, or you would like to do in the future, that you feel would be romantically exciting.
When you are finished writing your romance wish-list, swap lists with your partner and he or she with you. Taking turns, ask each other questions about each item on the two lists until you both fully understand each other's feelings about "romance."
With your partner's agreement, hold on to your partner's list so you can refer to it in the coming weeks and months.
Try to do one or more items a week.
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