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Surviving infidelity: Bitterness after the affair

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Jan 11, 2018 @ 16:01 PM

Getting over an affair is hard work. However you never thought after the affair had completely ended, how you — the partner betrayed — would be impacted on a very deep level.

Knowing how to deal with infidelity is not easy. Especially when the trauma of this relationship crisis continues for many months even after the affair is over.

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Five Ways to Deal With the Torturous Thoughts That Come After the Affair

Posted by Abe Kass on Tue, Sep 12, 2017 @ 17:09 PM

Dealing with infidelity is challenging because of the torturous thoughts that come after the affair is over.Learn more about what you need to do if this applies to you.

Infidelity is a relationship act that when discovered hurts everyone involved. After an affair has been disclosed the entire family suffers including the children and extended family. Surviving infidelity presents the entire family with a supreme challenge.

Yet, no one is hurt more than the cheater’s partner. He or she is the main surviving infidelity victim. And if this is you and you are dealing with infidelity — read the following carefully.

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Surviving infidelity: You Have Brakes to Stop Infidelity

Posted by Abe Kass on Tue, Aug 1, 2017 @ 20:08 PM

Surviving infidelity: Be smart and stop infidelity before it starts!

Infidelity can be prevented — and should be! Here's how to prevent infidelity.

Ask a cheating wife or a cheating husband, and they will tell you after the affair is over, recovering from infidelity fully is not possible.

For many couples, surviving infidelity after the affair is over becomes the defining characteristic of their relationship. Insecurity, suspicion, and anger never seem to go away. Sadly, the couple may be haunted years after the affair is over.

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Tags: Surviving infidelity, After the affair, Ashley Madison

Surviving infidelity: Surviving “All-in-the-Family” Infidelity

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Apr 27, 2017 @ 16:04 PM

Those who are fans of the popular 1970s sitcom All in the Family and its various spinoffs know that Archie and Edith Bunker’s daughter, Gloria, was married to Michael “Meathead” Stivic, who was constantly at odds with his blue-collar, bigoted father-in-law.

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Tags: Surviving infidelity, How to deal with infidelity, Coping with infidelity, Recovering from infidelity, Lies about infidelity

Surviving infidelity: The Loyal Spouse’s Guide to Avoiding Romantic Entanglements at Work

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Apr 27, 2017 @ 16:04 PM

Queen Elizabeth II and Second Lady Karen Pence

Many affairs begin, innocently enough, over drinks with a colleague after work, or while attending a convention or business meeting out of town.

The cheater doesn’t start out intending to cheat. But opportunity knocks, one thing leads to another, and coworkers or business acquaintances find themselves having an affair – betraying one and sometimes two spouses. 

Such hookups are often portrayed as romantic and adventurous in novels and films – and by online profiteers such as Ashley Madison. In real life, getting over an affair that becomes known to others typically includes: broken marriages, profound emotional wounds, parent-child estrangement, sexually transmitted diseases, community ostracization and financial ruin – not to mention the derailing of once promising professional careers.

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Surviving infidelity: In the Aftermath of Infidelity, It’s Wise to Seek Counseling

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Apr 27, 2017 @ 16:04 PM

After the affair: When infidelity crashes your marriage or committed relationship, and you want professional counseling to help you and your partner rebound from the betrayal, who should you see and what should you expect from a therapist?

Far too many people never seek professional counseling after the affair is over. Often, one or both partners feel too ashamed to discuss their circumstances with a total stranger. Other times, it doesn’t even occur to couples that a third-party expert might be able to help them navigate past their relationship shoals. Read More

Tags: Surviving infidelity, How to deal with infidelity, Coping with infidelity, Recovering from infidelity, Lies about infidelity

Surviving infidelity: Does a One-Night Stand Count as Cheating?

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Apr 27, 2017 @ 16:04 PM

John is a sales executive who travels frequently on business. On one recent trip, he met an attractive woman in the hotel bar where he was staying. One thing led to another, and the two wound up having a one-night stand.


When John returned home and spoke about the incident with his therapist, John denied that the fling amounted to infidelity. “One night stands don’t count,” John maintained. And he genuinely believed it. This was his way of "coping with infidelity" - lying to himself.

Does this scenario sound absurd?  It’s not.

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Tags: Surviving infidelity, How to deal with infidelity, Coping with infidelity, Recovering from infidelity, Lies about infidelity

Where Do You Draw the Line on Infidelity? Take Our Quick ‘Surviving Infidelity’ Survey

Posted by Abe Kass on Thu, Apr 27, 2017 @ 16:04 PM

Taking This Short Survey Could Prevent Your Partner from Cheating on You

Can taking an online survey help you and your partner avoid the crushing pain of infidelity? This one might.

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Tags: Surviving infidelity, How to deal with infidelity, Coping with infidelity, Recovering from infidelity, Lies about infidelity

Surviving infidelity: Hormonal Honeymoons (Infidelity) Are Not Sustainable

Posted by Abe Kass on Sun, Mar 19, 2017 @ 21:03 PM

Dealing with infidelity often leads to the demise of the legitimate marriage. The cheating wife or cheating husband now needs to convince his or her new partner that he or she is trustworthy — and this is not easy to do!

If “John” leaves his wife, “Sue,” to marry the woman he is cheating with — “Violet” — can Violet ever fully trust that John won’t eventually do the same thing to her (i.e. cheat) once the initial sheen of their new couple wears off?

Making a lifetime commitment to a person that was at one time a cheating wife or cheating husband is problematic. It is, in fact, a contradiction. How does a cheating wife or cheating husband "commit" to someone when his or her track record proves that he or she is not trustworthy?

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Tags: Surviving infidelity, How to deal with infidelity, After the affair

Surviving Infidelity: After the affair, It’s Wise to Seek Counseling

Posted by Abe Kass on Mon, Mar 13, 2017 @ 11:03 AM

When infidelity crashes your marriage or committed relationship, and you want professional counseling to help you and your partner rebound after the affair is over, who should you see and what should you expect from a therapist?

What can a trained, certified, and caring relationship specialist add to the already confusing experiences and challenges surviving infidelity brings into your life?

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Tags: Surviving infidelity, How to deal with infidelity, After the affair

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